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Does He Love Me? Trying To Figure It Out Online
Posted: Wednesday, July 21, 2010
by James Bond
http://www.jamesandjanka.com/
Determining whether a man loves you can be difficult enough when the two of you are spending time together in your terrestrial lives. Add the barriers of attempting to start a romance online and it becomes truly daunting. To be honest, in this kind of relationship you have to figure out a lot more than a simple does he love you. The first question you need to answer is.
Do you know him?
You have to start with determining how much about this man you are curious about do you really know? Where and how much does he work? How much of his mind and energy is spent on the job. How does that fit with your expectations of a relationship?
What is his relationship like with his family? Who does he consider his family? How does that fit with your relationship to your family?
Think about your core expectations and begin to gather clues and ask direct questions. If you are still curious about whether he loves you or not here are a few ways to find out. - How much time do you spend together?
It is easy to spend a half an hour a day smiling and laughing when that is all you have to do. Online relationships make it easy to compartmentalize our lives and we can be anything for an expected, set amount of time. Does he ever surprise you with a message, gift, or idea. Is he working hard to find new ways to spend time together and learn about one another? If so, that is a very good sign. - Tell me about his friends.
While men tend to hunt in packs their private lives are far less social than that of females. Your man has two really good friends, four tops. When you are given access to who they are and why they are so close it is a sure sign that he is taken with you. - How do you spend the time you have together.
Online relationships can be difficult and working around time zone issues can often present a challenge. How does he handle this? If he makes a way for you to be together without interruptions this is a good sign of love. How often must your plans be rescheduled? If he makes plans with you and consistently keeps them that is a good sign. - How often do you plan to be together?
Is he making efforts to get to you or bring you to him? Is he applying for jobs or looking at relocating his business. Has he presented you with opportunities that you may like where he resides? Talking about things is great but when he begins presenting these tangible possibilities you are on your way.
Good luck and I hope you and your partner grow to be very happy together.
James Bond lives in Southern California with his wife Janka and cat Wyatt. He works with a community college district as a coordinator of student activities.
JamesandJanka also provide advice to couples on communication techniques and activities to increase intimacy in relationships.
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I really enjoyed this article, James, it's full of grounded wisdom and sanity. Thanks.
Thanks for reading Jennifer, have a great day.
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