How Do I Meet Her!?
Posted: Thursday, November 13, 2008
by James Bond
http://www.jamesandjanka.com/
First of all you have to ask the right question. You need to try again, this time, come at it from another angle. Meeting her is easy, enticing her, intriguing her, understanding her, those are the mysteries I am willing to explore with you if you are interested.
Enticing her is the most important of the three. There is nothing more beautiful, more intoxicating, then an enticed woman. She is the muse of testosterone, that which our strength was meant to protect. If for no other reason, entice her because then you will intrigue her.
Trust me, I don't care how much you have in common. I don't care if you grew up in the same color house, with the same number of rooms, had the same number of siblings, and the last four of you phone numbers where only 2 digits off. 7% of the time she isn't going to get it. Guess what 7% of not getting it will be enough to fill her with the insatiable urge to figure you out. I know, seems small doesn't it. Yep, you'd think maybe that wouldn't be enough. I hear ya, next your thinking, "maybe I should make up a crazy story just to keep her interested". Don't do it, 7% seems small but it will drive her crazy. Just crazy enough to stay intrigued with you, well, as long at you act right and lay off the crazy stories. Heres the best part, all you got to do to act right is be you, trust me. It helps to listen a little to because she will love giving hints. Just start doing crossword puzzles because hint catching skills are invaluable.
Lastly understanding her, good luck and I hope you two are happy together. No, for real, you think if I knew how to understand women I would be writing this article. Man, get off the net; you need some more social interaction. I will give you something though, this will help. If you want to understand her, then you have to love her. I remember growing up there was a television commercial that would come on. It talked about how love wasn't a feeling, love was a commitment. Later in life I read Bell Hooks, who quoted Gregory Peck as stating love as the commitment to the growth of another to reach their potential. So, to understand her, I suggest you commit yourself to her growth, and observe. If you have love and respect for yourself, entice and intrigue her, you two should be very happy together.
Let me know when you meet her.
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Top-level comments on this article: (2 total)Being a man I Know what you are talking about. The females are really hard to figure out.Yeah, I chose the topic using the "What people are looking for" page. I know it generalized a lot and am trying to get one of my female friends to write about dealing with our characteristics. I have a few that I know have caused me some issues.Thanks for reading and commenting. I am open to constructive critisims as welll. I just found this site and have always wanted to write so I am trying things out.
James....WHEW! That's all I can say as a response to this writing. So many great points! Especially this: "..."You want to intrigue her because of her inquisitive nature, not in spite of it..."; and you better stop telling secrets (LOL) with statements like this: "...she will love giving hints..." ;)Good JobGlad you enjoyed reading this. I had to refer to it myself last night as I was tempted to make up a crazy story to make my current love interest think I was more exciting. I then recalled this article and realized either I am enough for her or not. Funny how insecurity can creep up on me when I am really into someone.
Thanks so much for reading and commenting. I will be checking out and referring your articles to my students that I think would benefit from them. Have a great day!
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